YOUR LOVE BLUEPRINT

1:1 With Yourself

The relationship with yourself is the beginning of every love

Relationships are mirrors of who we are. They reveal patterns, needs, and triggers we might otherwise never discover. A (conscious) relationship can be a “pressure cooker” for personal growth.


In Relationship Therapy with Yourself, you take a unique approach: not with a partner, but with you. You learn how to connect authentically, recognize your own needs, and make nourishing choices in love and friendship.

Do you feel that this resonates?

Do you recognize this?

That you lose yourself in a relationship — giving too much, receiving too little, or feeling like you are the one carrying everything?
That you don’t really know what you need, or how to express it without tension or guilt?
Or that, as a single person, you keep ending up in the same dynamics — attracting, adapting, pulling away?

For many people, love is the place where we lose ourselves the most.
It’s where we seek approval, where we adapt, or where we withdraw.
Being fully yourself (while staying connected) sounds simple, but it requires courage, awareness, and honesty.
And that’s exactly where Relationship Therapy with Yourself begins.

Why this program

Through my own divorce — after eleven years together, three children, and years of therapeutic work — I learned how important it is to connect not from scarcity, but from wholeness. And how challenging it can be to not lose yourself in love.
That experience became the foundation of this program:
✨ an invitation to truly get to know yourself in love.

You don’t always need to enter a new relationship to grow in love.
And at the same time, you don’t need to “fix everything” before being in a relationship.
Growth can happen together, too.

You learn to give yourself what you often expect from someone else — so your relationships become nourishing instead of exhausting.

What will you discover?

In Relationship Therapy with Yourself, you explore your personal love imprint — the way you love, attach, and connect.
It’s shaped by your childhood, past, upbringing, previous relationships, and impactful events.

We work holistically: mind, heart, and body are connected, and through experiential work deep integration takes place.
You’ll discover how your attachment style, family system, and beliefs influence your relationships — and how you can shift them.
You learn how you experience love, what you need, how you respond, and how to choose differently.

You develop inner strength, learn to express your needs, and make choices (in love) that give energy rather than drain you.

Yes, let's go for it

Become aware of the patterns that hold you back and transform what no longer serves you.

Your 1:1 love journey  

1:1 Relationship Therapy with Yourself – what you receive

€1.495,-
(incl btw)

A personal 1:1 journey of 3 months in which you deepen the relationship with yourself as the foundation for love in every form.

INCLUDES:

  • Deepdive session (2.5 hours) – online or in person (Ibiza or the Netherlands); A safe, in-depth session where you recognize your patterns, attachment style and love blueprint — and learn how to heal them.
  • 2 Online integration sessions (60 min); To anchor your insights and apply them in your daily life.
  • Guided meditation; To return to yourself again and again — the place where love begins.
  • Reflective exercises; For self-inquiry, awareness and growth between sessions..
  • Online, or in person in the Netherlands or Ibiza
  • Exclusive 1:1 programma, including individual guidance, support and integration.
  • Payment in 2 instalments possible.

What it brings you

After three months:

  • You feel more clearly what you need and desire in a relationship — and you can express this with clarity.
  • You understand why certain patterns keep repeating, and you know how to break them.
  • You can set boundaries without guilt while staying open in connection.
  • You experience more calm, clarity, safety and trust in love.
  • You recognize your imprint and consciously choose a new way of loving.
  • You can enter relationships with more grounding, self-love and maturity — with or without a partner.
  • You learn to connect authentically — in a way that truly fits who you are.

For Whom

For conscious men and women — single or in a relationship — who feel that love can be complicated, but know deep down that it can also be nourishing and lighter.
For those who feel drained by love, or who have lost themselves along the way.
For anyone repeating the same patterns and longing for something that truly feels different.
For those who sense that the relationship with themselves is the key, but don’t know where to begin.
For those who want to shift their part in the dynamic — not by working harder to fix the relationship, but by growing within themselves.
For anyone ready to look at themselves with radical honesty, who loves personal development and growth.
For those who believe that relationships are a source of transformation.

When you learn to understand your inner world, you can connect with another in a healthy, equal, and authentic way.

✨ Where self-love and freedom meet
Relationship Therapy with Yourself is not dating advice or a relationship lifesaver — but a path toward mature love, where calm, autonomy, and connection go hand in hand.

Begin your love journey

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Sessions & Retreats. Just what suits, intensive short or deeper long-term.

A match is super important, in what you desire with my offer, and where you are in your process with my working method. Below is my complete offer again.

1:1 WITH YOURSELF

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